There's a woman on TikTok who has come up with a rather unique way to keep her fiancee on the straight and narrow: she's had a contract drawn up that says if he cheats on her, he has to pay all of her bills. You read that right. To quote from yahoo(dot)com:
- “I have just reached a new level of crazy,” she stated. “I just made
well, not made, he did it out of his own free will, but my fiance just
signed a legal document and we got it notarized that if he cheats on me,
he has to pay my bills.” She added, “I’m so smart or so crazy, I don’t know.”-
Well, let me tell ya something....
Personally, I only have one issue with this. If he willingly signed it, that's fine; that's on him. But, my way of thinking is, if *I* have to sign one, then *YOU* have to sign one, also. It's not a one-way street here. All or nothing; both, or none.
Look, I'm not a cheater. It's just not in me. It's just a weird thing to me; if you feel the need to step out on the person you're with, just break up. It's obvious that at least one of you doesn't want to continue the relationship, so just end it. And don't use your kids as an excuse. Don't put them in the middle. Come to a workable, mutually beneficial agreement, and go your own ways.
Don't agree? That's fine. Whatever works for you, then that's okay. But don't try and make me sign a document that benefits you, if you're not going to do the same. Think of it as Mutually Assured Destruction: both sides are threatened, so both sides behave. If they have an issue with signing one, but want me to sign it, that tells me that they are either thinking about doing it themselves, or have already done it. Either way, I'm not doing it. If it ends the relationship, then it's probably for the best. If trust isn't there, then the relationship isn't going to work.
If you don't trust me, how can I trust you?
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